
Somatic IFS Therapy: Healing Through Mind-Body Awareness
Physical sensations are more than just reactions. They are part of how we emotionally process experiences, and they hold valuable information about our well-being. Somatic IFS Therapy is a unique and powerful approach that blends various approaches of somatic therapy with Internal Family Systems (IFS) to foster deep healing. In this blog post, we explore how Somatic IFS integrates body awareness into counselling and emotional healing and how reconnecting with our sensations can lead to profound emotional release and transformation.
Signs You're Recovering from Anxiety: Understanding and Building Distress Tolerance
Recovery from an anxiety disorder is rarely a straight path. Some days, you might feel like you're making real progress; other days, it may seem like you're back where you started. But one of the clearest signs that you're on the right track is an increase in distress tolerance—the ability to handle discomfort and difficult emotions without feeling completely overwhelmed. So, what exactly is distress tolerance, and how does it fit into the healing process? Let's talk about it.
Building Love That Lasts: What Sue Johnson Taught Us About Healthy Relationships
Relationships can often feel like a thrilling yet unpredictable rollercoaster ride, full of highs, lows, and moments of confusion. Sue Johnson offers a guide to building healthier relationships. Her work, rooted in attachment theory, emphasizes the importance of the emotional bond between partners. Johnson provides practical tools to help couples create a stable and loving connection. With these insights, relationships can become resilient, enduring challenges like stress, anxiety, and trauma.
How to Develop Self-Leadership
Do you ever find yourself setting goals and then not achieving them? Maybe you start projects, but never finish them? Or perhaps you struggle to get started in the first place? Developing self-leadership is a journey that empowers you to take control of your thoughts, emotions, and actions, leading to greater personal and professional success. In this blog post, we look at what self-leadership is and how you can improve on this important skill.
The Best Tool for Couples Struggling with Conflict
As couples begin to navigate difficult conversations in the therapy office, they gradually realize it is much harder to do the same at home. Although clients and I have joked about this in the past… I cannot (nor do I want to) go to your home to remind you and your partner to “slow down” when trying to communicate.
In place of this obviously uncomfortable situation, I offer couples one of my favourite relationship tools: the Feelings Wheel.
Communicating Emotions in Relationships
Communicating emotions in relationships requires self-awareness, empathy, vulnerability, and a continual commitment from both partners. These skills are foundational for building trust, understanding, and intimacy in your relationships. By recognizing, expressing, and empathizing with each other's emotions, couples can deepen their bond and create a foundation that sustains their relationship through the challenges of life.
Staying Grounded During Conflict
For those of you who are like me and don’t like conflict (I mean—really don’t like conflict), I want to share something with you that helped me become able to handle conflict situations better. It’s not “five easy steps” or some secret knowledge that came to me in a dream. It’s something that I gained from counselling, and something that I like to help my clients with too.